What is normal for children of divorce?
pre-planning your divorce.
Divorce should be planned just like a marriage if you want to come out with your sanity intact
Here at Divorce Negotiator we are passionate about helping people and so we are offering you a sounding board to ensure that you avoid the pitfalls that so many others have suffered.
I remember once hearing from a client that a friend told her it is normal for a dad to only see the children every other weekend. WOW I could hear myself saying. To me normal is an idealistic state of being that remains as such. Because the idea of such a state varies from being to being and any set standard is nonetheless someone else’s idea of what it is. Normal is about as concrete as the idea of “love”. The meaning is constantly evolved to suit the momentary desires and/or needs of a single person, or group of people. Your fiends normal cannot be your normal. If you and your husband agree that the children should stay 50/50 with each of you , then this will be your normal. If you agree only every other weekend then this will be normal too. The law only gets involved if you two seriously cannot agree, but remember, before the judge will make a ruling, you will both have to go to mediation first.
If you are going to get divorced then make sure you have planned it right for everyone to come out the best they can. Your in-law may still need to be in your life, parents still need to be in children’s lives. Did you know that children become are more grounded when their divorced parents were still able to talk?
We are here to listen and we don’t charge so why not call today and put one step in place.
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